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Cam Models and the Truth About Women

Women birth us and they understand us. And we men fall so short of that. Oh, that we only knew what they go through to love us as they do and how much they are willing to give us. Oh, God, how foolish and brutish we are. We treat these lovely creatures like trash. We… Continue reading Cam Models and the Truth About Women

A Newbie Cam Model’s Conflict

I recently caught a relatively new model crying. She thought her cam was turned off when I entered her room. We had recently become friends and entered into a confidence and trust. She knew I was there for deeper reasons than for sex. She regarded me as someone that understood females and had experience as… Continue reading A Newbie Cam Model’s Conflict

Supporting Female Self Worth and Value by Evanu REi

A male has the natural and innate potential to bring the female to an extremely high degree of self value, self esteem and self actualization. The reason for this first and foremost is the natural and biological fact that the male is her counterpart as progenitor of the human race.  This core realization on the… Continue reading Supporting Female Self Worth and Value by Evanu REi

Sex Cam Models … The New Pinocchio?

"Hey, diddly-dee, an actors life for me!" This was the song and dance the clever Fox sang to the naive, wooden Pinoke as they trotted off to new hot adventures arm in arm. How many of us have been there, and still are? Nose and ears ever growing with lies to cover up our misdeeds… Continue reading Sex Cam Models … The New Pinocchio?

The Refinements of “Cam” Over Porn

In the world of the sexually explicit internet culture there are many variations. To say, "It's all porn" is an over simplification. I use the word "culture" for a very important reason. Because as difficult as it may be for some people to permit sexually based core values to be expressed anywhere, freedom in a… Continue reading The Refinements of “Cam” Over Porn

The Social Benefits of Sex Oriented Live Cam Venues

No longer is it necessary for females to engage men physically sexually, as so many have done for so long a time as a last resort to taking care of their kids and paying bills. The advent of the sex cam venues allows a woman to share what she knows men want and are willing… Continue reading The Social Benefits of Sex Oriented Live Cam Venues

Succeeding in Cam Land

Painting by Evanu Rei Over the decades I have spent as a life coach for sex workers I have learned that the most successful in the long run were those who were spiritually developed and refined human beings. It makes little difference what your occupation is if you truly love your work. And love, in… Continue reading Succeeding in Cam Land

“You Want to Put it Where?”

Most people love roses. And rosebuds are always a curiosity as people anticipate the glory of that little gem when it opens. ... What is it about the anus that has such a captivating lure over both men and women? Let's see if we can get to the bottom of this. What's really going on… Continue reading “You Want to Put it Where?”

The Idea of Pornography by Evanu Rei

Having engaged in coaching for many years and for some period those incarcerated at times for sexually generated offenses may I suggest the following question: "Is there something right about watching other people making love, having sex and being erotic, or is it simply, in the view of many, something very wrong?" Something Right ?… Continue reading The Idea of Pornography by Evanu Rei

A Cam Model Can Fall in Love with You

We all want to be liked and loved. Wouldn't it be wonderful to know that the model who is ready to take off all her clothes and reveal everything to you truly likes and even loves you? I know the key to achieving this. The great advantage that the real lover has in the Sex… Continue reading A Cam Model Can Fall in Love with You

Cam Models and Compromise

When it comes to survival and money there is no limit to what a person will compromise away to achieve their goals; sometimes everything. Live Sex Cam Models and their visitors spend countless hours entertaining each other and as most females will agree the models often compromise something deeply rooted in their gender and natural… Continue reading Cam Models and Compromise

Live Cam Models vs. Club Strippers

The real and virtual world offer many parallels especially in the area of sexual and erotic entertainment. But, how does the Live Sex Cam Model compare to the Live Strip Club Model? Perhaps the best way to begin is by describing some things I learned about the exotic club dancers I learned some years ago… Continue reading Live Cam Models vs. Club Strippers

Sex Cam and Partner Issues

Prison inmates have a saying, "If you are willing to commit the crime you must be willing to do the time." But real men who consider themselves higher order alphas are committing no crime when they visit beautiful cam models. This behavior is well documented as a natural and normal part of our human biology… Continue reading Sex Cam and Partner Issues

Beauty and the Cam Girl

"Hi @Visitor come into my space and stay little while. I am so pleased to see you. Make yourself at home." Whether you are new or old in the live sex cam venue these ideas are sure to improve your business? I have been a life coach to sex workers for quite some time and… Continue reading Beauty and the Cam Girl

Cam Sex and Personal Integrity

"What we think, feel and say in the sex cam model's chat room represents who we are." Self discovery is a wonderful thing according to the Ancient Greek saying from Delphi. To "know yourself" leads to the highest wisdom, riches and fame. Those who have no idea who they are, like animals, are often led… Continue reading Cam Sex and Personal Integrity

Tipping the Sex Cam Model

The cam experience can be quite delightful for both model and the patron. We all have our own reasons for being there. Some get lost in chat rooms for hours exploring fantasies and unimaginable visuals one is would hesitate to describe to grandmother even if She is a model herself. Many models wear the cutest… Continue reading Tipping the Sex Cam Model

Sexual Pleasure and Emotional Healing

Research has shown that the thinking and feelings of males is different than that of the female in some ways due to hormones present early on in fetal development. Because of this it is well established that the way males and females think about and approach their gender and sexuality is different. Whatever those differences… Continue reading Sexual Pleasure and Emotional Healing

Evanu Rei … Some Background Info

I am a seasoned life coach of many years among sex workers in the San Francisco, Bay Area. I have exchanged ideas with persons living in extreme luxury, to those serving life sentences in maximum security prisons. As friend and confidant to a number of these our lives have been enriched. Drawing from these real… Continue reading Evanu Rei … Some Background Info

On the Psychology of Eroticism

Imagine if one of the most important things in your partner's mind was to make you feel pleasure. How nice would that be? Welcome to your Erotic Journey. Imagine how great it would be if one of the most important things in your partner's life was to want to play with you and make you… Continue reading On the Psychology of Eroticism

Prince Ahmad’s Noble Hug by Evanu Rei Chapter 3. The Harem.

Among certain of his female servants Prince Ahmad could feel a deep desire to be with a man so intimately that they might come to know and experience their femininity more completely. He knew that this would help them live fulfilling, purposeful and meaningful lives. Perhaps, he thought,  he could find suitable mates for them.… Continue reading Prince Ahmad’s Noble Hug by Evanu Rei Chapter 3. The Harem.