Erotic Sensitivities and Sex Life

Human sexuality is something everyone experiences and finds interesting and also vital at times whether in partnership with another or single. We often wonder what it takes to improve this area of our lives. The following are some ideas I have come to recently on the subject.

Being conscious and aware is a great asset in developing erotic sensitivity. Sex alone is something which requires very little of these characteristic. But, when a soul chooses to be conscious of both self and other with a well tuned awareness the pleasure of human sexual encounter is an achievement beyond measure building trust, loyalty and fostering a mutually creative spirit.

Some believe that porn dulls erotic sensitivities. Although there may be some truth in that I think it depends more on what is at the core rather than what might appear on the surface.

I’ll give you an example. Let’s say two people have been married for ten years and they have no sex life. They believe they love each other and are committed and faithful to one another. Yet, sex happens once in a long while and in time may end all together. The reasons why this happens vary. Sometimes there are physical reasons and sometimes emotional. Overall the biggest reason why breakdowns in the sexual life occurs, I believe, has to do with trust.

Trust is built on the heart or core. Core is the root of the word “courage”. The word trust and its meaning originates in Western Civilization from the Greek word “pistis” which means “persuaded stand”. It also derives from the word “fides”, so the word “confidence”, for instance, means “with faith”.

Once the “sex life” has been altered either for physical and/or emotional reasons it is often better to let the past be what it was, and look ahead to new possibilities in the present and future. Adding doubt to the situation only intensifies the reasons that caused the breakdown in the first place. It is better to learn new ways to introduce positive reinforcement into the relationship. This is a form of renewed courtship. Females love it because it makes them feel more secure and accepted in the relationship. Women are prone to feel troubled, confused and may blame themselves for certain failures in their relationships.

It is important for the male to remember that females by nature are highly sensitive and emotional creatures more than we are. This is a well established difference between the genders based on our unique cerebral biology. Hormonal differences between the male and the female have specific effects on the genders. This is natures way to create a natural attraction. Understanding some of these things I have mentioned have improved my relationship with my partner and I feel will insure greater and happier longevity.

Thank you for visiting and please do not hesitate to comment.

Namaste,

Evanu


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