The Refinements of “Cam” Over Porn

In the world of the sexually explicit internet culture there are many variations. To say, “It’s all porn” is an over simplification. I use the word “culture” for a very important reason. Because as difficult as it may be for some people to permit sexually based core values to be expressed anywhere, freedom in a liberal society says “you may!”.

So in the advent of millions of adult videos becoming present and available the Live Sex Cam venue offers a new dimension in the appreciation of “human being”, and “human sexuality”. For those who embrace this venue, both models and visitors will tend to incorporate each others wishes moment by moment. And so, the refining of both art and patron steadily improves via numerous micro adjustments available through the “live” venue. It is for many a unique and exciting aspect of our new internet culture. 

This is a new phenomenon. Instead of a single producer/director establishing his or her style of video making, a model will have continuous direction from many sources directing her. But, she also gets to direct her visitors along the way. The refinement of her gifts and talents in time might even raise to the level of  a fine art. Who would have thought? This is different than getting good at what you do. It is getting good at what others want you to do. The model is reinforced every step of the way through tips and compliments. She begins to feel a greater and greater sense of personal value in the positive affect she has upon her international audience.

As a result what the live sex cam models represent will be quite different from what is found in any other area of human sexuality. It has it’s own feel, structure and vibe. It is a wealth for those who may have expected to find such refinement in porn movies and may have felt sadly let down at times. Watching any cam model one quickly begins to notice her talents, what she thinks about herself and her visitors, and what she has practiced and honed both for herself and them. She is always a work in progress.

The dynamics of sexual encounter and expression are much different than, say, being in a studio setting, or even an amateur with a single person, generally. It is in many ways akin to a concept I promoted in San Francisco back at the turn of the Millennium called “The Naked Underground” which was a live documentary of musicians evolving together in a number of clubs in San Francisco. We were finding ourselves musically each time we got together and played. It’s kind of the same thing in the cam oriented chat room. Where our reward in music came out of a tighter ensemble, the reward in the cam venue is that it establishes a closer link between those who appreciate watching and interacting with the model. Participating together to refine and shape her behavior both the model her visitors exchange continuous feedback in the form of compliments and praise, monetary tips, a certain degree of trust and learning how to accept one another.

What I have just mentioned are good values. There is no exploitation going on here either from the website management, the models or visitors. Without question there will be always a certain degree of objectification of the other where selfish motives are present. But, isn’t that what commerce is all about? Of all the venues for commerce in the sexual arena I feel that this is the most hopeful for finding and supporting deeper human values which often transcend the purely sexual and move into more altruistic thinking and feeling.

I have counseled hundred of sex workers for many years. I am happy to cite a good example in a recent situation I noticed with a model I have been working with.  She was new and after setting fairly strict limits to how she intended to proceed on cam, she hoped to attract fine gentlemen who might wish to support her well and who were kindhearted. To my delight I soon noticed someone visiting who enjoyed her simple presentation, character and almost sublime beauty who began to treat her with great honor and respect while asking for very little in return. He was also quite generous stating that he only wanted to visit her. He achieved in her area the status of, “Knight” which gave him certain privileges on her page. Needless to say this single mom was so happy to have such a new friend. I was overjoyed to see the partnership begin. And she esteemed me highly for my counsel and in joining in her hopes and desires.

Many people will criticize this new venue writing it off simply as “porn” and anathematizing everyone and everything about it. But, those who consider themselves open-minded and less judgmental upon visiting may find that there is plenty of room and opportunity here for average people to make living without having to sell their souls. True, as always there are certain dangers and temptations that may result in greater immediate gain, the wise and noble spirits will seek wisdom and apply it to all the they do no matter where they may find themselves in their journey. Greater gain, with a little patience, is sure to follow.

Thank you for visiting my blog and please avail yourself to my other writing on the subject and, of course, your comments are always welcome.

Namaste,

Evanu

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